It turns out that after the new patch, the COT bonus feats have been changed from every 3 lvls to every 4 lvls. I had posted a dru/sht/cot build before that had 18 lvls of cot. Taking into account the above info and realizing that the cha of my other build isnt terribly high (and secretly wishing to make him more powerful) I post this version.
The original idea was to make use of the RIsen Lord shape and Drow elf shape. Why? I like the look of the drow! and having a +6 wpn infinitly is a nice idea.. especially if you live on pws that are considered low magic. The risen lord, well, cuz he's the boss, imho.
I also saw a post for rakasha build shifters and would have loved to work that aspect into this guy, but alas i was only able to squeeze 13 druid lvls, allowing an empowered Ice storm vs the maximized ice storm.. Oh well.. so here is my 3 shape focus shifter.
Elf : taking elf gives you longsword for wpn foc.. as well as a pretty strong melee char until epic lvls when you get your main shapes.
str 13 dex 10 wis 17 Int 10 con 10 Cha 14
Stats are taken to give you melee presence, enough wis to get Outsider shape, and the cha to get some use from the COT lvls.
I took extend spell at the end because i realized that the druid lvls r not really that high to give lots of time for buffs. As you can see, this build is melee based, it is nice to have empowerd ice storm on the quick bar for those moments of mass destruction!!
If you see any improvements, i am happy to hear bout them.
Oh well.. so here is my 3 shape focus shifter.